In late spring/early summer 1997, my boyfriend at the time and I were walking down a street in London when Tori walked past us. BF, who grew up in her hometown in Maryland and was obsessed, made us turn around and follow her for a couple blocks, then at a stop light, he just said "I'm going to stop stalking you, but… » 7/24/14 2:53pm Thursday 2:53pm

Though I disagree with him on most things, I'm with Dan Savage on this one: gay or straight, male or female, if your partner just never (or almost never) wants to have sex (and there are no extenuating circumstances, like recent loss or health condition), that's a permission slip to look outside the relationship. » 7/24/14 11:18am Thursday 11:18am

Glad you updated. This is an important distinction, as there could be long-term impacts of widespread, long-term Truvada use that we can't predict now and that could be harmful. I'm glad this is out there for people who need it, but I think we need to be cautious of people treating it like it's candy because "the… » 7/14/14 4:27pm 7/14/14 4:27pm